What should I do if the child is not accepting the younger siblings in the second child?

2021-11-05 09:06:28
[Chinese and foreign toy network December 30] The year 2016 is coming, many new policies will be launched in the new year. This time is no exception. The "two-child comprehensive" policy will also be implemented on January 1. However, since the news of “Comprehensive Second Child” has been published, all families have discussed this issue: If one is reborn, can the child accept it?
Recently, the little boy forced the parents to refuse to give birth to a second child's video on the Internet. In the video, the boy cried and complained. "Mom, I will talk about it now. If you dare to have a second child, I will "Dare to die!" and explain "I don't want my younger siblings, you give more love to your younger siblings, you don't love me...". The video caused a hot discussion among netizens. There are many similar phenomena, which caused many parents to worry.


According to the new cultural report, 23 children aged 5 years old in the kindergarten were asked whether to accept the younger siblings. Nearly half of the children did not accept the younger siblings. Most of the opinions were “to eat snacks, grab my toys, love to cry,” but also many The children said that when the father and mother are too busy, I will take care of him.

Survey results
Many netizens said that it is difficult to understand the idea of ​​being forced to death or afraid of being robbed of toys. Many people attribute this idea to parent education, and children are selfish, but more netizens say that children are not sensible, sometimes they are ignorant, and they are vulnerable when they are young. The external influence, relatives and friends to scare the child with the second child, to the child's inner shadow, this thing can not blame the child.
Yu Yajie, a child expert who has been engaged in early childhood education for 26 years and has practical experience in parent-child education, said that now six adults are turning around a child and actually overprotecting their children. If there is another brother and sister in the family, the child will have a sense of responsibility and will not be alone. Parental care for children is not the same as care for brothers and sisters. Children often know what children need most.
If you really want a child, but the current child can't accept it, then how do you want to infiltrate your child?
"Be sure to tell your child about the benefits of having a younger brother and sister: If your parents are physically ill and need someone to take care of you, you will be too busy to be alone; when one day your parents are not there, you will be alone." Yu Ya Jie said that the most important thing is that parents must let the children understand that even if there is another brother or sister, Mom and Dad will love him as much. Parents should also encourage their children to believe that they can become a responsible brother or sister. This way the child will not have a sense of rejection of the future brother and sister.

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